Help me to understand something, Please.
I have been reading Jack's Advent story and this question came to mind. I didn't want to ask it there, because I didn't want to take away from his great story with a discussion on something other than his story.
In the story it has been mentioned a couple times already and I am sure it will be mentioned more, because one boy is "cruising for a bruising," he just doesn't realize it yet.
So it has been mentioned about how much these boys in the Red Club either enjoy being spanked or giving a spanking and some enjoy both. It has also been mentioned by more than one boy in the story that Dad's spanking is worse then the spankings given in Club Red, even when the Red Club spanking is more severe. Why is that?
Being a non-spanko. Maybe the only one on this forum, I am curious. Those that know anything about me, know that I am a curious type of person. I love to learn about things and this spanko thing is something that I am very curious about. I have both given and received whippings. I have received many more than I have given. I didn't enjoy either.
I have my ideas about why the boys in Advent, feel the way they do about the difference between a Club spanking and a Dad spanking. But they are just ideas of a non-spanko, without the inside personal knowledge of the subject. This isn't a topic that can be asked at MMSA, because that forum is totally about fictional story spankings and not the real thing. This question isn't about fictional stories, but about the real world of spankings. Why will a person, boy or man, enjoy being given a severe real life spanking and fear/hate getting a regular punishment spanking?
I suspect that the answer to this question will be different with each person who is willing to tell me why they enjoy either being spanked or giving spankings or both. I am sure this is a personal thing, so I also understand anyone not wishing to answer this, because it is so personal. But for those that will honestly share why they feel the way they feel about this, I am very appreciative. I purposefully didn't type any of my reasonings, because I don't want to dilute your answers with ideas from someone with no knowledge of the topic.
So why is a club spanking, even when it is very severe enjoyable, when a spanking from dad or other authority figure isn't?