Show Posts

This section allows you to view all posts made by this member. Note that you can only see posts made in areas you currently have access to.


Messages - Surfer

Pages: [1] 2
1
Jack's Blog / Re: 10 Septemeber 2020 - About Time
« on: September 14, 2020, 01:17:02 am »
Thanks for the update Jack! Please keep the web site. I still look at your work there from time to time. And the updates here, when you're able to post them.

2
Anecdotes / Re: Spring 2020 Spanking Report
« on: March 25, 2020, 02:37:30 pm »
Interesting update. Sounds like he was kind of asking for it, figuratively and literally. Why was it done on boxers vs. bare? Also, what did his boxers look like?

3
General News and Announcements / Re: MMSA Conditions
« on: February 29, 2020, 12:03:17 am »
Thanks for all the updates! It takes a village.

4
General News and Announcements / Re: MMSA Conditions
« on: February 27, 2020, 11:00:19 pm »
Thanks for sharing this update Jack. It's not the first time MMSA has been down in recent months. It is concerning how sensitive the archive is to host updates, but I'm sure they are working to make it better.

5
Biographies / Re: Liam Marsh Wells
« on: September 06, 2019, 10:50:25 pm »
He's come a long ways. And to keep himself out of trouble since May is a great accomplishment. So likely no more otk for Liam, but he may still have to bend over and take it. Will the paddlings be done bare or on boxers?

6
Free Discussion / Re: Underwear
« on: July 24, 2019, 04:02:27 pm »
I'm a huge underwear fan myself. It relates to my interest in guys, and in spanking. I'm also generally curious so see what men and boys are wearing.

From a practical standpoint, I see no reason why a child that young needs anything more complex for underwear than briefs. The comments about obscenity, playing with him self, etc. are just "red herrings" to distract from the grandmother's decision to change his underwear.

From a social/peer pressure perspective, underwear is quite complex. As boys gets older and have to change in front of peers they switch from briefs to boxer briefs. This usually around the start of middle school. The underwear "upgrade" is almost treated as a coming of age in western society today. Young men who prefer the style/fit of briefs can continue to wear them, but the peer pressure will be strongly pitted against them, especially in the tween/early adolescent years.

As for why, there is this association with boy=briefs, man=boxer(briefs), I don't actually know. I agree with Jack though, it's more intimate to be seen in briefs, than in any of the boxer variants. There are also not as many style options (colors, patterns, etc) available for briefs.

As a boy I wore (mostly white) briefs right through high school. In 7th grade (mid-90s) boxers arrived in full force and I didn't like them very much. I wasn't alone in this, but we were soon the minority in the locker room!

Every year I noticed the freshmen, who had to change for the same period of PE, would arrive in stark white briefs on day 1. 90% would switch to boxers by the end of their first week. Needless to say, I tried to maximize my time in the locker room during the first week of school each year!

Currently, there is a great diversity of underwear for men and boys. I don't think it's a polarized issue (boxers vs. briefs) as it once was. There's still a general aversion to basic white briefs, except for very young boys (and older men). I wear boxer briefs, as do most guys my age. I love briefs for all things spanking though.

7
On Spanking / Re: Beyond Over the Knee
« on: July 03, 2019, 09:53:29 pm »
Most of mine were over the lap. My dad either sat on the long edge of my bed, or he would sit in a chair. I had one of those hard plastic swivel desk chairs (from IKEA, I think) that he would use.

The one time my mother swatted me I was standing and she kind of pushed me into a corner of the kitchen counter and swatted me with a wooden spoon. It was very haphazard and I barely felt it. Dad spankings were no joke though.

8
Biographies / Re: Chance (19) and Craig (13) Monroe
« on: June 27, 2019, 12:39:55 am »
Thanks for all the deets Jack. I just read the bedroom post as well. So Craig is the youngest in that room with Kenny and Colt. How does he like that? Does he seem to relate more to older or younger peers?

Nice of you to get him some clothes of his own. An ex partner of mine had a niece and nephew (I think about 10 and 12 yrs at the time) who grew up in poverty. For Christmas one year we took them on a modest shopping trip, and it was the highlight of their entire holiday season. Who knew something so simple would bring so much joy!

Have you seen Craig wearing his new boxer briefs yet? Did you replace all his underwear, or just supplement what he came with.

9
Biographies / Re: Chance Monroe
« on: June 26, 2019, 12:09:22 am »
Very nice of you to take him in Jack. Is there potential Craig would stay beyond the summer? What have you setup for him in terms of space - sharing bedroom, etc.? Of the new clothing you bought him, which item was he the most excited about?

10
Biographies / Re: Kaden Connelly
« on: May 06, 2019, 01:23:49 am »
I purchased a cheap used car at age 16 as well. And it was my pride and joy. Screwing up and not being able to drive it would have been very bad. So I get Kaden's motivation to pursue the alternative. The bath brush sounds pretty painful but I would think 8 swats would be tolerable but memorable. Did he know it was only going to be 8 from the start?

11
On Spanking / Age range for spanking
« on: May 03, 2019, 01:22:59 am »
What are your opinions on the age range for spanking? I'm referring to the non-consensual, punishment kind. I'm aware that some countries (like Canada) have legislated the ages for spanking, while others have out lawed it entirely. But if there are no clear rules, what do you think the age range should be?

12
On Spanking / Re: Lord of the flies
« on: May 03, 2019, 01:19:26 am »
I remember watching the move in a 10th grade english class (after we studied the novel). I sheepishly looked around to see if anyone was as interested as I was! In the years that followed I rented all versions of that movie (among others with spanking scenes) and watched when I had the opportunity to do it discretely.

13
Anecdotes / Re: Spring '19 Spanking Report
« on: May 02, 2019, 06:35:40 pm »
So how did that sleepover work out, with you in undies and everyone else in PJs?  Were you self-conscious?
I just waited in my clothes as long as possible. But it was apparent to my friends that I didn't have anything to sleep in. The host kid loaned me some gym shorts to put on.

When I got home I asked my mom why I didn't have any sleepwear. She replied that I didn't need any and it would just create extra washing.

After that experience I always packed an extra pair of shorts on sleepovers. And I noticed that some others did the same. Nobody wanted to be seen in underwear, until boxers came out in my early teens.

14
Anecdotes / Re: Spring '19 Spanking Report
« on: May 02, 2019, 01:10:32 am »
Oh to be young...I remember all kinds of stalling tactics back in the day, and see the same in my niece, nephew and friends with young kids. I think those held-by-the-hand-while-standing spanks are the perfect reminder you mean business. Hope they were well behaved in the bathtub and during the movie after!

As an aside how many of us wore actual pajamas as young kids? I always thought people slept in underwear until I went to my first sleepover.

15
Biographies / Re: Tidwell Family
« on: April 29, 2019, 07:05:32 pm »
Sounds like Linc got a bit too big for his britches. There is the innocence of, as you say, not realizing just how many rules he was breaking. But there's also the desire to push the limits just a little bit further each time to see what happens.

Sounds like he got a swift response to that test. And he was a bit emotional about the whole thing, before and after. That all suggests that he really did learn something today.

What made you pick a small paddle, rather than using your hand? In which room was the spanking carried out, and was anyone witnessing? Do you give over the lap spankings like this to other students, or just ones you know well?

Pages: [1] 2