Posted by: db105
« on: May 28, 2024, 11:02:00 am »Yes, certainly we can talk about it if we want to. We understand that whatever we say will not change the MMSA policies, but then again many people enjoy talking about politics and the world's problems even though they have little possibility of influencing them.
The thing is, I totally appreciate and sympathize with Plagosus' point, but I also see that the point of the icons is to help readers find the stories they want to read and avoid the ones they don't.
So, let's say we have a story that seems to be a normal father-son scenario. The father is scolding the son but at the end they realize that whatever happened is actually the father's fault, and it's the son the one who ends up spanking the father. This would have a role-reversal icon, a family/other icon and an adult spanked icon. But the writer rightfully says that he intended the ending to be a surprise, and can they please not spoil it with the icons.
Then, if the request is honored, the story would get a boy spanked icon, a family/father icon and no role-reversal icon. Then, a bunch of people who just love role-reversal stories would never read the story, and a bunch of people who just hate role-reversal stories would read the story and hate it.
On the other hand, if the request is not honored, then a bunch of readers who hate spoilers will be bummed because the twist was spoiled for them. However, these readers now think: OK, I hate spoilers, is there a way to prevent this from happening again? And they have a way: they can choose to navigate the site without icons. Then they are protected from icon-spoilers at the cost of losing the help of the icons when it comes to deciding what to read.
Ideally, we would have three ways to navigate the site instead of two: without icons, with regular icons, or with non-spoilery icons. Then, for stories of this kind, the reviewer would mark the regular icons and the non-spoilery ones, and the reader would be able to choose what they prefer to see. However, it seems to me too much work for something that is not such a big deal, in my opinion.
To my reasoning, maybe Plagosus would say: OK, but you are thinking about the rights of the readers, but what about the rights of the author? Shouldn't the author get to choose how his story is presented, regardless of what the readers may prefer?
And we also have the rights of the site-owners, who generously offer the site for us to use without requiring us to pay for the costs. Shouldn't the site owner have the right to choose the rules for his own web site and how to present the stories in it?
Of course, for a story to be posted, both the site owner and the author have to agree. The author has to agree that he wants his story to be published in the site for free and has to accept the site policies about how it is presented. And the site owner has to agree that he wants to publish the story. So, if the site owner is not flexible about what an author wants, it may happen that the author may decide not to publish the story, which would be a pity, but I don't think we have a huge problem with authors disassociating themselves from the site for this reason.
Instead, if we are worried about disaffected authors, what we should do is close the MMSA forums, because it's much more likely that authors may decide to remove their stories, or not to write more of them, because of some brush with Flagellant there. While Flagellant is very generous with his efforts to provide us with this archive, he is, to put it mildly, not the most diplomatic person ever.
Back when I was a reviewer at MMSA, I used to do my best to smooth things over when Flag offended some writer, but I have given up, and accepted that there's nothing I can do. What will be, will be, and I hope the archive will exist for many years, that Flag won't get discouraged and close it, and that not too many authors will drift away because of some forum flame war. But the most important one of those is that the site will not be closed. It would be a huge loss. To cut my losses, I have saved copies of all the stories from the authors I like, but the future stories that we'll never get when there's no MMSA are still a huge loss.
The thing is, I totally appreciate and sympathize with Plagosus' point, but I also see that the point of the icons is to help readers find the stories they want to read and avoid the ones they don't.
So, let's say we have a story that seems to be a normal father-son scenario. The father is scolding the son but at the end they realize that whatever happened is actually the father's fault, and it's the son the one who ends up spanking the father. This would have a role-reversal icon, a family/other icon and an adult spanked icon. But the writer rightfully says that he intended the ending to be a surprise, and can they please not spoil it with the icons.
Then, if the request is honored, the story would get a boy spanked icon, a family/father icon and no role-reversal icon. Then, a bunch of people who just love role-reversal stories would never read the story, and a bunch of people who just hate role-reversal stories would read the story and hate it.
On the other hand, if the request is not honored, then a bunch of readers who hate spoilers will be bummed because the twist was spoiled for them. However, these readers now think: OK, I hate spoilers, is there a way to prevent this from happening again? And they have a way: they can choose to navigate the site without icons. Then they are protected from icon-spoilers at the cost of losing the help of the icons when it comes to deciding what to read.
Ideally, we would have three ways to navigate the site instead of two: without icons, with regular icons, or with non-spoilery icons. Then, for stories of this kind, the reviewer would mark the regular icons and the non-spoilery ones, and the reader would be able to choose what they prefer to see. However, it seems to me too much work for something that is not such a big deal, in my opinion.
To my reasoning, maybe Plagosus would say: OK, but you are thinking about the rights of the readers, but what about the rights of the author? Shouldn't the author get to choose how his story is presented, regardless of what the readers may prefer?
And we also have the rights of the site-owners, who generously offer the site for us to use without requiring us to pay for the costs. Shouldn't the site owner have the right to choose the rules for his own web site and how to present the stories in it?
Of course, for a story to be posted, both the site owner and the author have to agree. The author has to agree that he wants his story to be published in the site for free and has to accept the site policies about how it is presented. And the site owner has to agree that he wants to publish the story. So, if the site owner is not flexible about what an author wants, it may happen that the author may decide not to publish the story, which would be a pity, but I don't think we have a huge problem with authors disassociating themselves from the site for this reason.
Instead, if we are worried about disaffected authors, what we should do is close the MMSA forums, because it's much more likely that authors may decide to remove their stories, or not to write more of them, because of some brush with Flagellant there. While Flagellant is very generous with his efforts to provide us with this archive, he is, to put it mildly, not the most diplomatic person ever.
Back when I was a reviewer at MMSA, I used to do my best to smooth things over when Flag offended some writer, but I have given up, and accepted that there's nothing I can do. What will be, will be, and I hope the archive will exist for many years, that Flag won't get discouraged and close it, and that not too many authors will drift away because of some forum flame war. But the most important one of those is that the site will not be closed. It would be a huge loss. To cut my losses, I have saved copies of all the stories from the authors I like, but the future stories that we'll never get when there's no MMSA are still a huge loss.