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Posted by: db105
« on: February 23, 2025, 07:44:51 pm »

and he assured me that he definitely understood that I mean what I say. 

Well, he just had had a practical demonstration.
Posted by: Zyngaru
« on: February 23, 2025, 04:46:28 pm »

Thanks to all of you on the feedback.  I'm wondering if Z read something wrong or if I mistyped something.  Heaven knows, reading back over old posts, I find all kinds of typos I made, and it only takes one small word to totally change what you'd meant to say.

Here is the quote you made when commenting about opening a new Update thread.

"Please don't start new threads in that section.  If you have someone you're dying to know abuot, please send me a PM.  However, I will tell you that some of these are going to be much harder on me than others, and I'll deal with those as I'm able."

I am guessing you didn't mean "don't make comments," but rather don't actually open new topics in the Update section.
Posted by: Jack
« on: February 23, 2025, 08:51:03 am »

I'm reading these updates too, and definitely find them interesting.

One question: you mentioned in Zeke's thread that you spanked Nix twice. Could you tell us more about those spankings?

Zeke and Kix are both technically still subject to corporal correction, and there is still a paddle there (and they both have good hair and bath brushes there if I need them).  Kix doesn't really need spanking, but he accepts it both because Zeke isn't quite ready to do without it, and because I am paying so many of his bills right now.  With Zeke, I've only used it once in about 3 1/2 or 4 years, and I used it twice with Kix - once at the same time Zeke got it last, not long after they moved in together, and the other time for some problems with the school deal.

Let me digress to say that Kix isn't a young man that particularly needs corporal correction.  I'm fairly sure he'd learn from natural consequences.  However, when they were deciding to move in together, he was made aware that Zeke is still subject to it.  Kix has known Zeke for years now, and already had some understanding of his background, but we went into it in depth.  It wouldn't be appropriate for Kix to discipline Zeke.  Because I took over a lot of Kix' expenses, so he could finish up his education, it was decided that him accepting CC from me as well wasn't a horrible idea.

The first time was not long after they moved to the place they share now.  It was an accumulation of things, where both of them were just letting things slide, and weren't keeping up with our agreed standards.  After a brief lecture, mostly making sure they both knew the expectations and penalties, they went to their bedrooms and stripped, then came back to the living room and went over the back of the couch. 

The paddle I used was an 18" long (about 12" was blade), 3" wide, 3/8ths inch Lexan.  We started with a question response for about the first twelve swats, which definitely had their attentions.  Then I gave 8 more fairly quickly  Zeke had already broken down by 16, and Kix was crying by 18, so I decided that was enough.  I know Zeke needs aftercare pretty urgently, so I was hugging him and rubbing his back, when I saw Kix just staring at us, so I ended up pulling him into the hug, and the two of them took care of their own rubbing.

They've had lapses since then, but not many and not often, and nothing I think needs to be commented on.

As for Kix solo spanking - I require him to keep a college version of the homework folder, so we can see where he is and how he's doing.  To me, he needs it because, as I said, he's going to school full-time, had cut down to working part time, but still had other duties, and he needed something to help him stay organized.  He'd done it a couple of weeks, then just kind of stopped.  He and I had a long discussion about it, then we went to his room, where he got a long, thorough session with the bathbrush.  I treated him just like I would any of the younger boys, right down to undressing him and putting him over my lap.  After corner time and some aftercare (and him getting his briefs back on, which didn't do much to disguise the **** that had popped up when he was getting hugs and back rubs), we had a long time, and he assured me that he definitely understood that I mean what I say. 

The best thing was, his grades did go up a bit after he got serious about keeping everything organized.
Posted by: db105
« on: February 23, 2025, 02:50:44 am »

I'm reading these updates too, and definitely find them interesting.

One question: you mentioned in Zeke's thread that you spanked Nix twice. Could you tell us more about those spankings?
Posted by: Jack
« on: February 23, 2025, 01:11:51 am »

Thanks to all of you on the feedback.  I'm wondering if Z read something wrong or if I mistyped something.  Heaven knows, reading back over old posts, I find all kinds of typos I made, and it only takes one small word to totally change what you'd meant to say.
Posted by: afinch
« on: February 22, 2025, 10:56:16 pm »

I am definitely reading and enjoying the updates.  I've missed them.
Posted by: Leti
« on: February 22, 2025, 07:32:52 pm »

Hola Jack!
Its great that you are updating and introducing this young men and their stories.
Thanks a lot.

LL
Posted by: Zyngaru
« on: February 22, 2025, 05:25:50 pm »

Yes.  I a reading these.

I haven't made any comments on the updates, because I sort of remember you saying someplace you didn't want comments on the updates.

But since I have commented, thank for updating Kix.
Posted by: Jack
« on: February 22, 2025, 02:54:53 pm »

If you'd asked me 6 years ago, Kix is not one of the kid's I would have thought I'd be updating (especially not early in the process).  However,

Kix Bradford Davies b. 25 February 2003 (he will be 22)
(and yes, he is named after Kix Brooks from Brooks and Dunn, or at least that's where his parents got the name).

I hadn't expected to ever update him, because I never spanked him, and he's happy with his own family.  I did give him two swats with a school paddle one time.  He's one of the kids who took advantage of our .... virtual learning center during the pandemic, and that was just for a fairly standard school boy misdemeanor (misusing his computer during study time).

The reason I am updating him now is that he's one of the two boys Zeke has dated over the years, and they are currently living together.  Kix is in his senior year at the local college.  He's working for me part-time to cover his day to day expenses, and I'm covering his monthly expenses, so he can still go to school full-time.

Mostly I just wanted to remind people who he was before I update on Zeke, but I will say, while he's filled out some and got better frames for his glasses, he's still cute AF and still reminds me of a young Tyler Posey

Kix is working on a BS in business, with a minor in English, and earning his teaching certificate.  He wants to teach, but wanted a degree to also give him a fallback position.

There are things I want to save until I update Zeke, but I can say that Kix is still friends with a number of my kids, he and Zeke are definitely sexually active (Zeke made him sit down with me, so the three of us could discuss safe sex), and when I took over funding him, he agreed to follow a number of my rules, and he claimed he was willing to take CP is I felt it was called for.  On the other hand, as far as I know, he's never had more than a minor violation.

I feel like there's something else I should mention, but maybe that's just the stuff I'm saving for Zeke's update, so I'll say bye for now.

PS - Folks, if you're reading these, please leave a reaction below.  Even if you don't have a question, you can hit the like button to help me see how many people are really paying attention to these new updates.  I know it'll take a while to rebuild traffic, if many people are even still interested, but give the old dog a bone.
Thanks
Posted by: Jack
« on: February 10, 2018, 05:32:52 pm »

He's not cute, unless you have taste like mine, but he is fun to have around.
Posted by: David M. Katz
« on: February 10, 2018, 03:56:51 pm »

I appreciated the update!  Sounds like a cute kid.
Posted by: Jack
« on: February 10, 2018, 12:08:11 pm »

I have been meaning to update this for literal months now, but it's not time sensitive info, and I always seem to forget it when I sit down at the keyboard with free time.

Kix was a kind of regular visitor after his first time.  I didn't have access to them at the time, but I've looked at his student records since, and found out he does get in trouble once or twice a year - usually he'll get tangled up in something several kids are doing.  Once he gets to know people, he's a bit less shy, and he did get positively noisy a few times playing around with my boys.  He gets along with Leif just fine, but he also likes Colt, Kenny, and Devon (and Zeke). 

From what I remember, he was over here almost every weekend, and he actually spent the night here during Thanksgiving week.

While I still don't know if he gets spanked, it's interesting how I learned that he certainly did used to get spanked.

I think it was the weekend before Christmas Break started.  Kix had asked if he could come over, permission was granted, and his mom dropped him off.  He came inside, said hello, then said, "What are you doing here?"

Kaden, who'd had a pretty rough week over all, though things really had looked up for him just looked at the other boy. 

"I live here now," he finally said. 

"Seriously?  How'd that happen?"

It turns out that Kix and Kaden have been friends since third grade.  Kix took a moment to speak to his other friends, then and Kaden retired to Kaden's room.

So, Kix became a very regular visitor at that point  As he and Kaden spent more time here, he also became less shy.  He and I have also become good friends.  He's very good at strategy games, and he loves to read, so we share a lot in common.

Kaden was also willing to talk about his friend a bit.  One time, when he's pretty sure they were in sixth grade, Kaden had ridden his bike to Kix's house.  Kix dad came in and told him that Kix had something to take care of, so he needed to go home.  Kaden asked if he could come back later, but was told no.  The next day, Kix showed up at Kaden's apartment, which surprised Kaden, because 'I thought (you) were grounded or something.'

"No," Kix answered, as honest and shy as an 11-year old can be.  "I got a whupping."  Turns out he'd lied about finishing his chores, and his dad had finally noticed, so he'd got whupped, recovered, and done chores, and then it was dinner time.

Another story Kaden once told me, after he'd met Steven, and I'd told him a little of what Steven had gone through at 18.  In return, he told me what he calls the most embarrassing whupping he'd ever had (except the one with his dad's wife, which he doesn't seem to count, since it was unfair).  As best friends often do, Kix and Kaden had had a falling out during 7th grade (he couldn't either couldn't remember what caused it, or was embarrassed to admit it).  It had eventually led to the two of them getting in an actual fight at school.  While Mr. P is willing to listen, in today's environment, actually fights, especially among older kids, are not handled lightly.  The problem was, Kaden's only parent was his mom.  To make things worse, apparently Kix's dad was out of town, so his mom responded.  So here you have two boys - 12 or 13, probably early adolescent - being paddled on their bare bottom with two women in the room. 

Kaden said that both mom's promised, and his mom later restated, that they would watch their own son, as he stood in the corner, and the other boy's mom would watch her, ensuring privacy, while making sure Mr. P was still supervised.  And that's what happened - both boys had to bare themselves and were paddled until they were howling and crying, while two women stood in the room.  Kaden was so cute as he told that - he literally cringed.  I fought hard not to laugh, but he did smile - sheepishly - when I did.

Kix has been in trouble one time since he's been coming over here.  It was after Christmas.  I was letting him browse in my library, and when I went to talk to him, I found him violating one of our rules.  It wasn't a huge deal - he wasn't actually hurting anything, and I did believe he'd just forgotten, but I reminded him that if he wanted me to trust him in my library alone, it was his job to remember the rules he'd agreed on.  He admitted it, apologized, and promised to do better (he'd opened a display cabinet and was looking at a very expensive book I'd obtained recently).  I asked him what his dad did when he couldn't follow rules.

"Mostly takes my phone.  Some times he grounds me."

He was a little embarrassed by his actions and willing to talk, so I guided him a bit.  When he was younger, his dad (his mom as well when he was much younger) literally spanked him - bare bottom, hand or spatula (rarely brush for mom as he got older), over the lap.  Around the time he started 7th grade/middle school, it was belt on pants mostly.  In high school, he 'mostly' gets grounded or restrictions.  He did rush to assure me that he doesn't get in much trouble.  When I asked about that 'mostly' he explained that Dad still threatens the belt, but he hasn't used it since he started school last fall.

That's about it - Kix does wear white briefs - very cute, though he is pretty skinny and doesn't have a lot to fill them out.  He's much less shy than he was, but he still tends to be quiet, especially in a group.  He's turning out to be a good kid, and I hope he continues to be a regular - even if he doesn't get spanked.

Posted by: Zyngaru
« on: October 23, 2017, 04:39:10 pm »

Quote
Heaven knows, he's totally adorkable, and I hope to see him a lot more

Well have more adorkable events at your house and I am sure one certain adorkable boy will find a way to visit more.

WOW!  "Adorkable" didn't come up as a misspelled word.  So I am guessing it is a real word.  Hmmmmm!
Posted by: David M. Katz
« on: October 22, 2017, 01:32:58 pm »

I don't even know if he gets spanked

I'm sure you have your ways of sleuthing this out.   ;)
Posted by: Jack
« on: October 22, 2017, 12:32:24 pm »

Kix is one of the kids in my sci-fi/fantasy club at BCA.  He's a freshman there. 

Kix is what you'd call a hobbledehoy.  To me, he looks like Tyler Posey during the first season of Teen Wolf, but skinnier, more awkward, with shorter hair, and Buddy Holly glasses.

He's pretty shy.  It took him about five weeks to come up and talk to me.  I think the only reason he did it then is that he and Evan Tidwell are friends, and he found out Ev is staying with me.

I'm only putting Kix here, instead of bios, because he's only been here once, and he's not close friends with any of my kids.   He  knows Van, Liam, and Colt, and he's friends with friends of my kids, but I don't know if he'll be a regular guess.  Heaven knows, he's totally adorkable, and I hope to see him a lot more (he came over yesterday and stayed late enough to hang out and talk books and comics).  The other reason is that while his mom seems pretty strict, and while he does got to BCA, I don't even know if he gets spanked (he is in high school, after all).